"During the summer I turned 14, I came home to a typewritten letter waiting for me on my bedspread."

One of the letters the author received from her father, this one from 1989

Geralyn Broder Murray is a Northern California-based writer whose work has appeared in Newsweek, USA Today, and Shondaland. Find her online at GeralynBMurray.com.

This article originally appeared on HuffPost at an earlier date but was republished as one of their "Best Of" personal essays.

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