"She was doing my brother. He bragged to me about it."

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"Then she came home from a bachelorette party and asked me if I thought hand jobs and blowjob’s were a big deal? I said no, but I found it odd that she asked, which was unlike her to bring something like that up. She became very guarded with her phone and added a privacy screen, saying it was company protocol for 'security,' and that I couldn’t know her password because I wasn’t an employee. She started traveling more and got into working out, buying new clothes, and getting a new hairstyle.She stopped wanting to have sex with me, and when she did, she asked me, 'Why are you kissing me that way? Was your nose always this big?' Last of all, we went on vacation with our kids, and who should be sharing the adjoining hotel room, yep, her boss and HIS FAMILY! I confronted her after the trip, and after weeks of denying it, she broke down and told me when I shared with her a list of things that I found, including a playlist she shared with him, and a detailed list comparing the two of us from where we were born, to kissing styles, to the size of our manhood.We reconciled and have now been married for over 20 years. I do love her, and originally stayed for my kids. Since then, we’ve added 2 more kids to our family. It’s been hard sometimes, but we work at it every day."

"I also confronted the new guy. He had no idea I was dating her. She told him I was just a cousin, driving her to work. I told him, good luck with her. As it turns out, she was boinking the guy for at least two months while we were dating. He also knocked her up. She was pregnant for almost two months by the time I dumped her."

"It’s not unusual for new police officers at this point to go out after the shift for coffee or food with other seasoned officers. She asked me about it and I said it’s fine I remember doing the same thing. But when those 'coffee' dates lasted longer and longer, I became suspicious. She assured me it’s just coffee. When she didn’t get home in time to put the kids on the school bus, I knew it was more than 'coffee.' I moved out, and he moved in, but soon decided to go back to his wife. Oh well…"

"She then tried to claim that she had not cheated because she broke up with me and was just living with me for our kid, and I assume, because I owned my own company, for the money. Oddly, she never got around to telling me we had 'broken up,' though she did throw and break a lot of stuff at me when I started packing to leave. Anyhow, I walked away (we weren't married), I had bought her a ring and everything, but I dodged that bullet! While the custody battles have been hell, I couldn't have been happier without her."

"Her cutthroat lawyer actually called me and tried to explain this was going to be an easy case. I told her the woman, the soon-to-be ex, had accused me of cheating, and agreed to be deposed. Also, I was going to call others that told me she was cheating, and we’d figure out the real story. Two weeks later, my lawyer received a set of papers for me to 'just go away'."

"I found her in several online adult videos/photos: mostly self-filmed riding dildos and unprotected sex with various men. I'm still deeply traumatized 20+ years later."

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