“Maybe it's my competitive nature, I want a guy who other girls want.”

“For every person I’ve ever been with, it has always been a part of foreplay,” she said, adding, “When it comes to my relationship, I just don’t have jealousy over him getting close to other women.”

She continued: “I understand how sex is for men most of the time outside of a relationship. It's just kind of transactional, and it's just like, they just wanna nut, and it's not about like, ‘I wanna spend my life with this woman.’”

“I was like, I need you to go out there and just have a flirty moment with someone,” she remembered, admitting that she initially felt a bit "weird" about asking. “Maybe it's my competitive nature, I want a guy who other girls want.”

“I think I felt a little bit sad that maybe she thought there was something with this guy that wasn't gonna happen, and I've been that girl so many times,” Nikki explained. “Whether the guy's lying about having a girlfriend or he's just casually dating someone and he's making it seem like it's not serious, but he's leading me on, and I don't have a chance.”